Do you choose your photographer or vice-versa?

So I thought I'd give a photographers prospective on choosing a photographer. Choosing a photographer, particularly for a wedding, typically is a very personal decision. This is why even event planners like to give their clients options when it comes to photography. There are a lot of things to consider: age, style, personality, experience, and location to name a few.

Chemistry is another vital aspect. Photography, especially wedding photography is a very intimate experience for most people. The most powerful, emotional and moving images are portrayals of openness, honesty and vulnerability. The glance of a bride, an embrace of bride & groom. Without a sense of chemistry with the photographer, the fullest extent of this potential is generally not realized.

On the other hand, most photographers I know, myself included, take deliberate steps in actually "choosing our clients." Successful photographers deliberately position themselves to market to a certain clientele, one that typically appreciates their unique style. Furthermore, any artist (photographers included) need to feel an emotional connection with their subjects: "Chemisty."Without this vital ingredient, both photographer and subject will have difficulty achieving their greatest potential together. This is why when I meet with potential clients, establishing some common ground is vital. I generally encourage seeking out this level of comfort with their photographer, even if it's not with me.

I hope this sheds some insight! I look forward to hearing your comments and experiences :)